Earlier I spoke about what it takes to co-create memorable Massage Experiences. I would like to take it 1 step further!
Part of what makes this a great experience, in my opinion, is that clear communication defines all the limits and boundaries. Yours and mine. Safety is created through clear communication. So I set up some rules or guidelines so that as a client you know up front what you can or can not expect from me.
My limits and boundaries are as follows:
1) I do not have sex with clients. Ever. No exceptions.
2) I remain appropriately clothed for your experience. I will never be nude.
3) Touch is one way! I touch you, where and how you want. So if you want more/ less pressure, a different area worked on, or any other changes, please let me know. However, I am not available to be touched. This about it this way - You would not touch your physiotherapist. right?
Your limits and boudnaries?
They can be anything! Some clients do not want me to touch their ears, their hair, their genitals, their bum, their left big toe! It does not matter what your limit or boundary is, if it is communicated, I will respect it! Furthermore, I do not need to know why it's a limit or boundary, unless you want to share.
This is YOUR EXPERIENCE and my goal is always to make it the best and most memorable experience I can.
